I understand societies reasons to demonize abusers, however, I would hope that there comes a day, where we take a good look at "who" an abuser is and "who" he or she is not. Almost all abusers become abusers for the same reasons those that are abused continue to be abused. Abusing others physically or sexually is a crime, I am not minimizing their actions (choices), they should all have consequences. However, what I would hope, is that people see and understand "where" they came from. What they do is wrong, "who" they are is a hurt little boy or girl, a child of God's.....